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Originally Posted by Cricket Tragic
I would suggest to you that parental greed is not widely involved in choices about family size. The relationship between economic circumstances and family size occurs world wide and has to do with an understanding that a smaller number of children can be provided with a better education and more support and are hence more likely to be successful than with a larger number of children.
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Families have shrunk to less than two per household in areas where opportunities for adults to enjoy themselves are abound. The decision to only have one kid is often so that childcare can continue, so the wife can continue to have the career.
Throughout the 80/90s, women were often made to feel guilt for giving up their career in favour of their family, as a house wife was looked down upon. This has resulted in a far greater proportion of two salary households, resulting in a greater increase in house prices, forcing future couples to continue earning two salaries. Women would then moan that they were over stressed at juggling all these tasks.
I would like to think society has grown up a bit since those infantile times, but I doubt it. Indeed, financial prosperity too often brings out the infantile in a society.
Most couples cannot afford private education, and must opt for state eductaion whether they have one or three kids. In the 70s/80s, we had 2.5ish kids per family. Its dropped not just because of prosperity but because women are putting off kids until their 30s. I doubted this rumour (even though I often heard), until I heard a crowd of women agreeing as one that having kids was best in their 30s, as they could enjoy themselves beforehand.
Like I said before, nature doesn't wait for these women, and they risk much for such enjoyment. Falling child rate? Wonder why?